This guy is what I call a “9-5er”, or in this case an “overtimer”. He works in finance or banking or something important like that – that’s usually when I space out and put all the business suits in one category. 50 shades of boring. I like my men in uniforms, not suits. Unless you have a sex dungeon ;]. So my date, who works 60-90 hours a week, managed to make time for our date, but I wasn’t feeling too well. He suggested we get hot tea close by my apartment and I agreed. Cute suggestion.
I’m a type B person and I admire a laid back, easy-going guy but he was a type A. I really don’t like planning, structure, or rules, but since I don’t like rules. I’m open to dating A’s. Maybe an A could motivate me because two B’s might get lazy together haha. (A & B chart on the bottom.) He asked me why I moved to the city. I told him I was here for modeling and in some time, a career in Fashion Merchandising. Jokingly, he said “Oh, so you’re looking for a sugar daddy?” I didn’t find that funny at all. Any potential thoughts I had of him just vanished. Way to blow it, A. Don’t downplay my dreams and don’t EVER think I need you or any other man. Loser.
At the end of the date, he pulled out a Vitamin C bottle. He had purchased it before our date as a gift to me. Hmm, first the sugar daddy comment, now a gift? The gesture was a nice touch, but I couldn’t get past the comment he made to give him a second date. You might be an A but you scored an F on the date!
Type A Personality Traits
Type B Personality Traits
|· Must get things finished||· Do not mind leaving things unfinished for a while|
|· Never late for appointments||· Calm and unhurried about appointments|
|· Excessively competitive||
· Not excessively competitive
|· Can’t listen to conversations and interrupts||· Can listen and let the other person finish speaking|
|· Always in a hurry||· Never in a hurry even when busy|
|· Do not like to wait||· Can wait calmly|
|· Very busy at full speed||· Easy going|
|· Trying to do more than one thing at a time||· Can take one thing at a time|
|· Want everything to be perfect||· Do not mind things not quite perfect|
|· Pressurised speech||· Slow and deliberate speech|
|· Do everything fast||· Do things slowly|
|· Hold feelings in||· Can express feelings|
|· Not satisfied with work/life||· Quite satisfied with work/life|
|· Few social activities/interests||· Many social activities/interests|
|· If in employment, will often take work home||
· If in employment, will limit working to work hours